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My
family life
First written in Jan 2006
Ever since my website was created in 1999, there has been no page on my family life though there
have been many other pages on Bio, Interests, Friends etc. The reason is not that I willingly avoided to write about my family life BUT, I have never felt any urge to write, that is why there was nothing on it.
But now I suddenly
came to realize that it looks odd not to have a page on my
family as I have described the most personal details in
this website. So I decide to write something on it.
My father - ahh... I would
not like to write much about him. My mother is a soft
hearted, naive lady - very religious. She has often taught Bengali literature in
colleges.
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Whatever I have gained, I
gained for my own ability and effort only. However, behind all these indirectly my mother's role was there. Because
she gives me a complete freedom to do simply anything, which
allows me to take my own, unusual, often strange and risky looking
approach of doing things. Jyotish, mantras and all other things
from where I have success - they would not really ever materialize
under parents who do not give enough freedom. My mother also
always provides me the maximum financial and whatever other kind
of support she can provide. On the contrary I do not get, or
refuse to take any support from my father.
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Since mid 2002 I have been living
independently. First sharing a small house with a brother-sisters'
family, now I live completely separate in my two bed - drawing
dining house, all mine. This is my own territory where I am the
king, where I am The GOD.
Surprisingly, I truly do not miss having a family of parents. God knows,
why! One reason is that, I am very objective and unbiased. I like
a person for his quality and not for my relationship with him or
her like having him or her as the father or mother etc. Even most people here have families
of parents, very few people have good parents who truly mean
'support' in emotional and friendly way as well as provider of
good guidance and advices. That is why, it becomes all the same
(to me).
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Going
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Home - Sweet Home
Even after living totally alone at the home I
never feel lonely - this is because a major part of the day I am
out at my office, at university, or hanging out with friends so
when I come back to my home I am tired and rest. My home is an
excellent and the best place for me to offer me relaxation, peace
and the best environment to concentrate into work in and also for
the mild spiritual practices I do. If at home I am not tired then
I am watching TV, surfing the net, chatting online, or doing
something interesting. I want my home to be equipped with all
standard facilities an ideal home should have - that is everything I
need for my work and comfort. TV cable connection, computer with 24 hours
non stop high speed internet connectivity, split AC, refrigerator,
microwave oven, fully featured cooking system, etc. and also on the way of taking
land phone line, geyser, washing machine etc. one after another.
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